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  • When You’re Lost and You Can’t Tell Anyone

    When You’re Lost and You Can’t Tell Anyone

    You are not the one in tears. You are also not the one pouring her whole heart out over broken stories. You are not the type who bravely calls in the middle of the night asking for help. You can’t be the one desperate for comfort and encouragement. You can’t be weak. You can’t be…

  • I’m Glad We Ended

    I’m Glad We Ended

    Hi. We haven’t spoken for years yet here I am. I’m now opening the door I’ve completely shut down years ago. I’m now making my first steps to come in again. I am welcoming our past back. These wounds will no longer be hidden. Tonight, for the first time since I locked it down, I’m opening…

  • How to Help Someone Open Up?

    She’s been silent since both of you arrived at the coffee shop. You know that there’s something wrong but you just can’t break through her walls. You asked, “Hey, everything’s okay?” She took a pause, looked at you, with eyes saying, “Help me. I’m lost.” Yet all you heard were her words, “Yeah. Yeah, all…

  • When We First Met

    When We First Met

    When we first met, I thought to myself, “Is this real? He’s coming towards me. He’s here.” All my walls got broken. Your presence had blown me away. You’ve won my heart. For that moment, I knew, I’m keeping you. I’m keeping you close. I’m keeping you tighter than ever. For once, both my mind…

  • You Don’t Deserve To Be Loved

    Yet you are loved nonetheless. There are so many people who I would hear crying and demanding every single day with the same sentiment, “I deserve to be loved.” And there are also hundreds of times I witnessed friends and family responding with, “Yes. You really do deserve to be loved. So go, leave that person…

  • Hold on a Little Longer

    So I see that you’ve reached your end. You walked out from the fight and left everything else we worked hard for. You said that you’re going to wait but I guess the waiting is over. You grew tired. You’ve let go of my hands, of my heart, and of my leading. You lost trust in…

  • Dear Self, I Promise You.

    I know that we haven’t spoken for quite some time now. I see you every day but I have forgotten to love you in His way. I’ve pushed you, a lot. I’ve pushed you to pursue things that have taken away your joy. I’ve pushed you to go to places where your heart is not into.…

  • Sorry to Disappoint but Love is Unfair

    “I am willing to do everything for her. I just want her to at least appreciate that.” “I did all that he asked me. How is it not enough yet?” “He doesn’t pursue me anymore. I felt so loved before but he just stopped doing the little things.” “I quit. I quit from loving you.”…

  • Babalik Ka Rin

    Hindi naman talaga kita nakalimutan. Maari bang tuluyang mawala ang lahat ng meron tayo? Maari bang makalimutan kung paano natin napatunayan sa mundo na hindi lahat ng bago, masama? Maari bang hindi na ituloy ang kaisa-isang bagay na tumutulak sakin magpatuloy? Maari bang makalimot ang puso? Babalik ka rin. Alam ko, babalik ka rin. Alam ko na magkakaroon ulit ng…

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